Remember those first days of school? Some kids were practically leaping onto the bus, while others hung back, clutching the railing. I always found that moment fascinating. It wasn’t just about nerves. It was personality on full display.
Adults aren’t much different. We still experience that rush of anticipation mixed with anxiety when starting something new. The Swedes even have a word for it—resfeber. That restless heart before a journey begins.
Each of us experiences it differently. For confident, results-driven Eagles, it’s the thrill of competition and proving themselves. For enthusiastic and social Parrots, it’s the excitement of new friends and adventures. For caring and loyal Doves, it’s about belonging and connecting with others. And for logical and precise Owls, it’s about structure and clarity. They need to know the plan, what to bring, and exactly where they are going.
Those fears don’t disappear when we grow up. They just appear at the office instead of the bus stop.
Eagles fear losing control.
Parrots fear negativity.
Doves fear disconnection.
Owls fear chaos.
But once you understand your style, resfeber becomes less about fear and more about growth. That mix of nerves and excitement is a signal you’re stretching into something new.
So, how does your style respond to resfeber? Do you run toward it or hesitate at the door?
I’d love to hear. Drop me a comment.
About the Author
Merrick Rosenberg writes and speaks about Personality Intelligence and the Eagle, Parrot, Dove, and Owl styles. He’s the author of Taking Flight!, The Chameleon, and the upcoming Personality Intelligence: Master the Art of Being You.